Yooooooo
protect girls

meladoodle:

meladoodle:

always

i counted 30 seconds


queenofmisandrists:

  • date the kind of people who will still respect you when you no longer love them
  • date the kind of people who will still respect you when they no longer love you
  • do not waste your emotional capacities on people whose respect for you is conditional

riotinglesbian:

It’s odd following these feminists for such a long time, thinking that they are lesbians, only to catch them mentioning their bisexuality or watching as they fall for men. If you aren’t a lesbian, do us all a favor and stop putting the word “gay” in your usernames or slogans such as “I love girls so much, I’m so gay” etc into your descriptions. Its so fucking suspicious when we find out that surprise, you’re not actually gay.

Comfort can be a drug. Getting off it can be a nauseating, hideous experience. But when your vision clears, there can be a moment of ‘What now?’ and that moment is the prize for what you’ve just endured. To own that answer - to answer that question as bravely and courageously and ambitiously as possible, and then, to pursue that answer, with all the dedication and will and force you can muster - can be worth every second of the pain and confusion that preceded it.Diana Keeler (via wordsaresinging)
"Don’t take a nude pic if you’re a famous woman and don’t want it leaked."

mysharona1987:

"Don’t wear a hoodie if you don’t want to be mistaken for a criminal and shot."

"Don’t get drunk at a party if you don’t want to be sexually assaulted."

"Don’t argue with a cop if you don’t want to get killed."

"Don’t walk home by yourself if you don’t want to get raped."

Victim blaming 101: Everyone should live in fear from ever doing anything.

I learned that people can easily forget that others are human."Prisoner" from the Stanford Prison Experiment (1971)

(Source: eolithandbone)


tbh anyone involved in dd/lg relationships shouldn’t be allowed to have or be around children.

(Source: fatandveggies)


majiinboo:

  • Do not forget Michael Brown
  • Do not forget how the media dehumanized him and tried to justify his murder
  • Do not forget how peaceful protests were painted as savage riots
  • Do not forget police armed with military grade weapons terrorized and arrested black civilians
  • Do not forget Darren Wilson being awarded over $400,000 in fundraiser donations for murdering an unarmed black child
  • Do not forget that this system was not built to defend us, but to control us
  • Do not forget Ferguson 

Children should remain silent, and they are ‘good’ when they’re quiet, but ‘bad’ when they are not, because they are disturbing the adults and causing trouble. This attitude runs through the way people interact with children on every level, and yet, they seem surprised when it turns out that children have been struggling with serious medical problems, or they’ve been assaulted or abused.

The most common response is ‘well why didn’t the child say something?’ or ‘why didn’t the child talk to an adult?’ Adults constantly assure themselves that children know to go to a grownup when they are in trouble, and they even repeat that sentiment to children; you can always come to us, adults tell children, when you need help. Find a trusted adult, a teacher or a doctor or a police officer or a firefighter, and tell that adult what’s going on, and you’ll be helped, and everything will be all right.

The thing is that children do that, and the adults don’t listen. Every time a child tells an adult about something and nothing happens, that child learns that adults are liars, and that they don’t provide the promised help. Children hold up their end of the deal by reporting, sometimes at great personal risk, and they get no concrete action in return. Sometimes, the very adult people tell a child to ‘trust’ is the least reliable person; the teacher is friends with the priest who is molesting a student, the firefighter plays pool with the father who is beating a child, they don’t want to cause a scene.

Or children are accused of lying for attention because they accused the wrong person. They’re told they must be mistaken about what happened, unclear on the specifics, because there’s no way what they’re saying could be true, so and so isn’t that kind of person. A mother would never do that. He’s a respected member of the community! In their haste to close their ears to the child’s voice, adults make sure the child’s experience is utterly denied and debunked. Couldn’t be, can’t be, won’t be. The child knows not to say such things in the future, because no one is listening, because people will actively tell the child to be quiet.

Children are also told that they aren’t experiencing what they’re actually experiencing, or they’re being fussy about nothing. A child reports a pain in her leg after gym class, and she’s told to quit whining. Four months later, everyone is shocked when her metastatic bone cancer becomes unavoidably apparent. Had someone listened to her in the first place when she reported the original bone pain and said it felt different that usual, she would have been evaluated sooner. A child tells a teacher he has trouble seeing the blackboard, and the teacher dismisses it, so the child is never referred for glasses; the child struggles with math until high school, when someone finally acknowledges there’s a problem.

This attitude, that children shouldn’t be believed, puts the burden of proof on children, rather than assuming that there might be something to their statements. Some people seem to think that actually listening to children would result in a generation of hopelessly spoiled brats who know they can say anything for attention, but would that actually be the case? That assumption is rooted in the idea that children are not trustworthy, and cannot be respected. I’m having trouble understanding why adults should be viewed as inherently trustworthy and respectable, especially in light of the way we treat children.

Children Talk But No One Listens – this ain’t livin’ (via unsungtale)
Don’t ever compliment me by insulting other women. That’s not a compliment, it’s a competition none of us agreed to."You’re not like other girls." Shut the fuck up. (via poppiefields)

(Source: escapedgoat)


fatandveggies:

discosherpa:

tell a straight ally that you don’t think straight people should go to gay bars

witness the magical transformation

they also shouldn’t go to pride.

(Source: discosunfish)

http://radicalfeministuprising.tumblr.com/post/96307482538/phobiacaptain-nicolegendary

phobiacaptain:

nicolegendary:

hell-born-rising-demon:

dolofang:

klartie:

when boys have sleepovers do they sleep in the same bed like girls do or do the rules of no homo include sharing beds

girls always share beds. and covers and…